Realist?

Ever since my best friend started cheating on me with his girlfriend, our time together has been lacking. We played phone tag for three weeks until my last phone call threatening to revoke any license he had to sexually harass me resulted in dinner and some TV on Friday night. And as we got to talking about our futures, I noticed a shift in my infantile and dream-like outlook on life. I realized that we grew up, and that I've slowly been transforming into a realist. Bullocks.